Hello! I've been engaged for nearly two years (wedding is next month), and this is the first time I've been stressed out enough about something to ask for advice. I hope this doesn't seem silly.
My mother and Maid of Honour are hosting a bridal shower for me this coming weekend, and my mother mentioned to me just yesterday that she has invited a handful of people to the shower that haven't been invited to the wedding. I know this is considered very bad manners, and she was not aware of this at all and thinks I'm worrying over nothing. My main concern, though, is how to handle a situation in which one of them asks if they were/why they weren't invited to the actual wedding. I can't just say, "Oh, sorry, you shouldn't have even been invited to this shower in the first place."
Can anyone give me any tips about how to handle this situation?
Thank you!