Let me first say we know we have plenty of time to pick GM's and don't plan on asking anyone for a while but here is a breakdown of a preliminary convo we had about GM's this week. Unless something changes, which I do not foresee, I want my brother (whom I have always been close with) in the wedding party. Due to distance my FI and my brother are not the closest, however, they get along, have lots in common, and do spend time together when we visit home. My FI said he thinks it would be appropriate and he wouldn't mind asking him to be a GM when the time came. Since he hadn't mentioned his brother in the conversation I brought it up. They don't have anything in common and have never been close. In fact until recently they didn't talk much, except at Holiday visits, until his brother got a dog and calls us to share things or ask questions since we have two. I was still surprised that my FI said he doesn't know if he will ask him to be a GM since he was okay asking my brother. Of course we can have his Brother included in the wedding some other way and I want my FI to make the decision. I am just worried about hurting his families feelings, esp. his brothers. What are your thoughts?