I have a friend who, for some reason, thinks she's a BM. I never told her she was a BM but, she is a close friend, so I guess she just assumed. She invited herself along to an appointment at David's Bridal and asked a mutual friend (who is a BM) for a ride to it. She proceded to try on BM dresses at the appointment with some of the BMs. I didn't know she was coming until they were already on their way. She always asks questions about planning but, I try to avoid it and switch subjects, only to have her revert back to questions 5 minutes later. She's a really sweet girl and isn't the type to push anything on anyone, so I don't think she's just trying to "pry" her way in. Now, some of my BMs have started tagging her in pictures they've taken during wedding-related things (against my request) and talking about BM details. Each BM was originally told who else was in the wedding party, so I'm not entirely sure how it came about. I would add her if I could but, budget makes it difficult. I already have seven BMs and will only have 100 guests, as is (I know there's no set rule, but I think it would look a bit strange with the ratio). I know you're never supposed to tell someone when they aren't a bridesmaid but, I don't know how to handle this situation. While I really don't want to hurt her feelings, I don't think it's really possible. Help??
I'm also away this may not go over so well on here, so I'm fully ready for flames, haha.
ETA: Appointment happened this past Friday.
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