Invite to RD

bridalmarch

My FI and I each asked an aunt to be a reader at our ceremony, which they happily accepted. Both of these aunts have two grown children. FI's cousin is one of his groomsmen and my cousin's wife is one of my bridesmaids. 

Obviously, our aunts and uncles, as well as FI's cousin and his GF and my and his wife are invited to the RD. My question is if we should invite the other child/cousin in these families. We're all close, they just don't have wedding "jobs". They are invited to the wedding, and they are grown and out of the house, but I don't know...I think I'd feel left out if my mom, dad, and sister were invited to something that I wasn't. 

Kate61487

do you have other aunts/uncles/cousins not invited? If they are the only two in that circle left out I'd invite them so they don't feel left out.  But if you both have other aunts and uncles not invited then I think I'd leave them off the list - they'd understand where the line was drawn since they weren't the ony ones.   There's not really a right or wrong answer here, you've kinda gotta base it on your own family dynamics.

Loopyseven

No, you don't have to invite them.