Actual Wedding E Question - TY notes

andy71781

Ok so I love my H for sending out the thank yous while I was too busy to breathe at work last week.  What I don't love is that he didn't record any missing TYs.  I'm pretty sure that we wrote them all but I'm not 100% sure.  The ones I'm unsure about are for his family and although they don't have a lot of money they pooled together and got us the cutest picnic basket with really nice wine in it - a very generous gift.

So is it lame to have him call and double check that they got their thank you?  That's less rude than not sending it right?

squirrly

I think it's ok. 

Kate61487

I'd agree that it's "less rude" to call and ask then to not send a TY.  Give it enough time that if you DID send one it has time to get there, but then call and check.  Honestly since it's family you can even probably tell them the full story and explain that you just aren't sure.

I had a cousin forget to put postage on some invites to her daughter's birthday invitations; when she got the first one back she started calling everyone to make sure they got them - things happen, people understand :-)