Okay I am unsure what I should do about this and thought you ladies would be helpful.
We are having no kids at our wedding but will allow OOT guests to bring kids because obviously they can't get a sitter in town (they're all family and everyone will be at the wedding themselves) plus we wouldn't expect them to leave them at home states away.
We are also having our son (ring bearer) and FI's Cousin's daughter (flower girl) who will both inevidebly be there.
BUT FI's cousin also has a 5 year old son. Is it okay for us to say that her son can't come when he daugter does or do we have to make an exception there...?