My mother in law to be whom i like a lot and has done a lot for my finance and I over the 5 years we have been together wants to have a bridal shower for me at her house that she plans. This shower will only be for his side of the family. I am very close with my mother and my maid of honor wants to plan the shower and so does my sister. So that shower will be for my family. My mother and father have recently got divorced and my shower will be the first time that my families will be together and I think his family will be a good buffer for my family who may feel weird being together. Also I am pregnant and when they are planing to have the showers will be in my 3rd trimester. I don't know if I will be up to going to two showers. I don't know if I should just let this go because it means a lot to my mother in law to be of if I should tell her that I only want one shower.