Hello,
My name is Shaquila and I've been engaged for about a year. My engagement began when my finance asked permission to marry me from my mother and grandmother and they told him yes. My fiance and I have decided on the date of April 18, 2014 to marry but, my mother is causing a big controversy over our date. She insist that we should push the wedding back an entire year which would be the exact month I'll be graduating from college. Right now my finance and I are paying for our entire wedding by ourselves so I feel as if we are the only people who have a say so in our date. In your opinion am I being mean or disrespectful by ignoring my mother or am I doing the right thing?