My family and bms are throwing a shower in about 3 weeks. We're registered on Amazon so people can ship the gifts to us, mostly for free and so we have less to haul on a plane because our families are spread out between Wyoming, PA and Kansas. This week I started getting shower gifts in the mail. We've opened them to make sure they're all ok, work, etc and we know who they're from.
My question, do I send thank yous now or wait until after the shower? It's possible people may get smaller gifts to go w/ the gifts they already got me...a few people have had that idea apprently. Or is it ok to wait about a month until I send out the thank yous after the shower? I don't mind doing it now, but I don't want to jump the gun either. I also don't want people to think I'm unappreciatitve, because I'm not at all!! Thoughts?