I have a guy who is an acquaintance, but in my small circle of friends. Typically, I'd want to invite this circle of friends to any big event I have. They are almost all invited to my wedding. Almost.
I just can't invite this guy (we'll call him Mike).
When I started dating FI, Mike got very upset. He finally blurted out one day that he was jealous... that he'd been hoping something would happen between us and was surprised that I hadn't realized that.
Here's the thing, though. Mike is really wanting to find a wife. He's been going from girl to girl hoping to find that connection. I know that he doesn't really have feelings for me. He's still trying to find "the one".
But, from the very first moment that FI met him, he didn't like him. He said that Mike is interested in me and he doesn't really like him.
Anyway, like I said, I'm not really friends with him, so he's not on our guest list.
My only concern is that the others in my small circle ARE on my guest list. I've known them longer and we have closer connections. I'm just worried that Mike will be upset to be left off and I'm not sure how to respond to him if he asks why he wasn't invited.
WWYD?
