Hello ladies!
I have a situation that I'd love to get some advice on.
A side note: They are moving back to CA in June for 4 years.
I am throwing a shower for someone that is originally from CA. Since she has only lived in RI for a little over a year, and because just his family lives here, there will only be a couple handfuls of people going (10 at the most). I have told the grooms mother about the shower and she has offered to help.
The grooms mother then asks me if she is inviting two of the girls who she works with that she has become very friendly with. Both of these girls are not invited to the wedding, so I explained to her that it is bad etiquette to invite her friends, and if they were invited to the wedding I would be inviting them to the shower.
To make a long story short, the grooms mothers (and now the groom) keep on bugging me if I changed my mind about inviting them to the shower, because "they are some of her limited friends from RI" (grooms recent text).
What would you say to them? Would you suggest if they want to invite them to the shower they can do so, but I do not feel comfortable doing that? I talked with BF very briefly about this, and he is on the side of inviting them because they may not care, but I still don't think it is right.
Thank you so much for any opinions!
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