We are having a simple ceremony probably about 15 minutes. We would rather the ceremony fell very natural rather than choreographed. We're having the couple that introduced us stand up for us as BM & MOH and that's the only wedding party, so it's not like we have to coordinate every one. Our immediate families are both very small. There will be 1 OOT family on my side and a few OOT guests on FI's side invited (up in the air who will actually come). Should we still have something the night before or can we just take it easy?