My shower is Sunday (a surprise he he). I received our first gift in the mail yesterday. I wrote out a thank you on our wedding thank you cards..then FI said, that must be a shower gift. So, how do I know if the gifts received now are shower or wedding gifts? Does it matter if they get the same thank you note card for each? Should shower thank yous be different?
I always do a shower and a wedding gift, but I have read on here that is not the expected. I know this person can't make the shower.