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Wedding Etiquette Forum

Am I being selfish?

Long story short, FI's Aunt C is a huge yard sale person, which is great, you can get some awesome deals! But she now feels it is her duty to buy my flower girl (FI's daughter), ring bearers (FIs nephews) and bridesmaid dresses are yard sales. I've already tried the "oh well we haven't decided on outfits yet" and the "we already bought the needed outfits", "That won't match" etc... She isn't taking the hint.

I am trying my best to break it to her nicely, but apparently she has already bought the flower girl dress, which will be 3 sizes too big (i know alternations), as well as it's cream and cranberry, our colors are orange and turquoise. And I also heard from her daughter that she has purchased 2 bridesmaid dresses in cream. FI has tried talking to her about it, but she insists, is it time to be blunt and to the point?

Who are you to judge the life I live? I know I'm not perfect and I don't live to be. But, before you start pointing fingers, make sure your hands are clean. -Bob Marley

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