For those of you who responded with a spirit of helpfulness I want to thank you! I really appreciate your taking the time to help me out.
For everyone else, sorry about the typos...spell check doesn't catch everything. I never mentioned a word about in-laws...learn to read. And for this to be an Etiquett Board, I hope you're here to get more advice than you are giving because you clearly seem to think that manners and etiquett are something you use let others know you think you are superior to them. Have a pleasant afternoon.