My wedding is in a few weeks and it's getting to the point where I need a final head count for the reception. The wedding is in Michigan and I have a aunt and uncle and their son's family who haven't replied yet. My mom left them a message a week ago. Just a friendly "How have you been? We know the wedding is far away, just wanted to see if you're going to be able to make it or not" type message and we haven't heard anything. We're past the RSVP date now. Should I just put them as a no and move on or keep trying them?