FB friend:
Major surgery in a week, we need help with child care, meals and house work. If your able to help, please let me know. And if u wana.help but live too far, monitary gifts are greatly appreciated
(The second part is her own comment on her status)
I understand she's having surgery, but even with that... isn't it weird to ask flat out for help with child care, food, house work and money? Like, shouldn't you just wait for people to offer?