In a nutshell, I mesed up when picking my bridal party....I wanted to include a close friend from another country (MR) but both my mom and my fi said she'd feel obligated to come and she prob wdn't come any way (at one point she said she might not be able to make it)....not to mention that we talk less now since she is in another country.... MR is traveling from another continent to the wedding (which I am really excited about except now I feel like crap for not putting her into the wdg in the first place). My FMIL keeps saying that I should have asked MR to be in it, but I don't think that she would feel honored.