A girl I lived in residence with back when I started college has this as her fb status, I was absolutely appalled?! Surely this is SO against etiquette.
"OK, people keep asking me what I want for my birthday... So I've decided. I would like people to pay for their meal at mine and J
ason's wedding. This is also likely to secure you an invitation. The meals will be $40 each, and so we're having trouble deciding who to invite because we just don't have the money to pay for everyone"