I have a question... and I know you guys will give it to me straight. Am I worrying over nothing?
My grandmother lives in an assisted living center. It's not a nursing home, it's more like a hotel that you live in where all the food is paid for and there are activities to participate in.
Due to injuries she now requires an aide to be with her for most of the day, from when she gets up in the morning until just before she goes to bed.
We found a company that gives us aides to use and after going through quite a few we finally found one we love and want to keep on a regular basis. The trouble is, this aide wants to be paid off the books. This way, the company doesn't take a cut and she gets paid in full.
I really like her, but is this even legal? It's not like she's baby sitting for a few hours or a teenager mowing out lawn for 20 bucks a week. She'd be getting several thousand dollars a month. This all sounds really shady to me. Can't she, like, not apply for healthcare? What happens when she files her taxes?
Worse of all, what if something happens to my grandmother? This whole set-up with the aide working off the books means lying to the assisted living center. This all sounds like a terrible idea.
I'm incredibly hesitant, but am I worrying over nothing?
