I am getting married in April and my fiance's parents have been divorced for decades, but they are cordial. His dad even goes to his mom's house for Christmas every year and brings his girlfriend. His mom has a boyfriend as well. It is a good situation and for the wedding everyone agreed on just his mom and dad being introduced together (not as a couple-just as parents of the groom Dad Last Name and Mom Different Last Name). Now his dad's girlfriend will not stop asking what she should wear and what role she plays and if she needs to wear a gown and get her hair and makeup done, etc. She even wants to go shopping with the moms! Maybe I am not being the nicest, but I don't need her to "play a role" in the wedding. I'm glad his dad is happy with her, but that is about it. My fiance's mom and I have both very nicely explained the situation to her, but she doesn't seem to get it. Advice? Thanks!