I’m stressing. My wedding is Oct 20th 2012 and I don’t have a caterer yet. The wedding will be at my fiancé’s parent’s house and they live in the boonies. The closest town is Columbia, SC. We want to do BBQ but want it to look nice, no throw away plates or tin foil chafing trays. I found a caterer who would travel and did this type of BBQ.. The only problem is I can’t get her to call me back! I called 2 times months ago and left a message with a staff member and never got called back, so I gave up on her. I looked elsewhere and couldn’t find what I wanted so went back to her. I called last week and she called me back Monday and left a message. I called her back on Tuesday and talked to her and she said she was at an event and would call me back on Wednesday. Now it’s Friday and still no call. Am I being too anal or is this a bad sign? How long should I give her? Should I call her back?