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Bachelorette Party Dilema...Have no idea what to do.

I had asked a couple girls to be in my wedding party. Two were best friends, one was a gf of my Fiace's cousin, and the others were gfs of my fiancés friends who I'm very close with. We had all gone out to dinner to talk about the bachelorette party being in Vegas and everyone said they were in. Now i find out one cant go because her husband wont let her, the other said she cant commit because she doesn't have a job, and another said she cant make the commitment because of work. This really upset me because i feel like i am being abandoned by my girls when everyone said yes previously.

II cant help but feel like I should plan something less expensive and have it at my house or at local bars, but I really wanted to go to Vegas on my last outing as a single woman. My BF said I shouldn't give up what I wanted because others cant commit but I feel bad. I dont know what to do...should I sacrifice what I want to do in order to accommodate the girls, or should I stick with the original plan and go to vegas without them?
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