Didn't want to hijack the other thread.
My dad passed away last year, and I'm doing a couple of little things in memory of him on the wedding day--including putting something in our program mentioning him specifically.
Here's the thing. I have two late grandparents who I was close to (and one I never met). Three of FI's four grandparents have passed away, and he was close to all of them. Also, FI's uncle died last year, and that wound is still raw for FI's aunt, who is coming to the wedding.
This seems like too many people to mention by name in the program, but I really want to mention my dad. He's my dad, you know? Any suggestions? Is it okay to put something about "Those who can't be with us today, including HLQ's Father," only mentioning him by name, but still sort of referencing everyone else?