I'm putting together save the dates and I don't know what to do with one of them. It's going to a couple that we've been pretty friendly with over our college career, since we worked with them at our student run radio and tv stations. Since we left college, they are one of the few people to stay in touch with FI and me, and are ultimately the only two from the combined stations that are receiving an invite to the wedding.
Am I going to be a total douche if I ask my friend (the woman in the relationship) not to mention the invite on facebook? She is still in contact with many of the people that we used to be friends with and from what many of the other people told my fiancé when he was back in the area for a job interview, they are expecting an invite to the wedding.
If I am going to be a total douche, please just tell me because I don't really want to cause more of an issue then there already is, and I just really don't know how to handle this.