So I have started making changes to my guest list becuase I had gone over quota for people to invite. I read somewhere to make a guest A, and a Guest B list, so that's what i'm doing, but I'm not telling my guests.
There were a few people that I cut out completely, but the Guest A is my family and his and also our wedding party and close friends from childhood. The guest B are also people we consider friends, like the people we would go out to coffee with once every 2 months, or people we go to the bars with or party on the weekends with.
So I have my Guest A list to 310 people and my limit is 300, so whenever someone replys back cannot attend, we hurry and send out a Guest B invite.
I personaly like this idea, but when I told my mother, she was like "Whhhhhat?"