This one comes from my homeland. This story has it all, etiquette, manners, MIL issues and choice of wedding venue issue!
This wedding won't be dull(if it ever happens now!)
FYI- I read spmewhere that the FDIL was diabetic, which the FMIL was aware of but chose not to try to accomodate. That would be the fussiness over food the FMIL complains of! This information is in the actual email apparently, but I can't verify this.