Wedding Etiquette Forum

Bridal Shower Woes

My MOH and I recently discussed a bridal shower and realized we have a big problem! I recently graduated from college and my friends and family are now spread througout the country. Most things I have read about etiquette say that everyone invited to the shower needs to be invited to the wedding but most of the people in this area are new friends that did not make my small list. What should I do? Do I have to forgo a shower since my guests are so widespread? Or can I have a shower here with my new friends so we can all celebrate together and explain to them that I am having a small wedding?
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards