So my future sister in law got engaged in April to her boyfriend of 7 years. Myself and my, now fiancee, just got engaged after 3 years. I have always wanted a Spring Wedding or maybe a fall wedding, however being military there are certain circumstances that we are trying to avoid. We are 700 miles away from all of our family and are having the wedding here versus my hometown or his hometown.
Now here is my question: She is planning their wedding for April of 2011. Is it proper to wait for her to get married first? Is there a certain timeframe that I need to be aware of?
It's starting to create a big ordeal, which i dont want. I just need some unbiased answers. I want us both to have our seperate special days without having to worry about stepping on toes.
Thanks!