I'm curious what if any gifts you are giving your ceremony attendants.
FI and I both have huge families, and in order to include as many people as possible we are having lots of attendants at our Catholic ceremony. We are having 4 readers (2 adult, 2 preteen), 4 gift bearers (2 young children, 2 preteen), and 2 adult ministers of the cup.
I appreciate them participating and want to acknowledge them with a heartfelt note, but I'm hesitant to try to get gifts for them all. The cost will add up fast if we get them anything substantial, and I'm worried too small of a gift will look silly or insulting.
What do you think?