I had a shower a week before my wedding (the shower was last Saturday and the wedding in this Saturday). Because I have to work most of this week and have a million things going on, I don't think I'll get to the shower thank yous until after the wedding. Is it considered bad form to write one thank you note for people who both came to the shower and brought a gift and then also sent a separate wedding gift? It would obviously save some time and hassle, but I don't want to do anything that is tacky. Do you I need to write two separate thank yous?