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Thank you idea for multiple people who gave 1 gift

I'm in a book club, and at our last meeting the ladies gave me a gift which was from everyone in the club.   Would it be appropriate to write out thank yous without specifically addressing them because I don't know who all will be there/won't be there?...and handing them out that evening.  Or is this tacky?

Or should I do it like every other thank you by getting individual home addresses and sending them via mail?  The first meeting we had in February had about 15 people, but lately it's been 7-8 people who have regularly showed up, so I don't even know if those other 7ish people are even in the club anymore.  When I asked my aunt who specifically it was from (she's in the club), she just told me "everyone."  So I don't know if that means the inital 15 of them, or the 8 regulars.

Any other suggestions would be appreciated!
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Re: Thank you idea for multiple people who gave 1 gift

  • Shiit multiple post. Sorry.
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  • I would ask your aunt if she could tell you specifically who contributed and get their addresses and send them individual thank yous like you would if they each got you separate gifts.

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  • I would ask your aunt for clarification and then mail them thank you cards.
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  • I would get specifics too, but you CAN hand thank yous personally.
    As my fiance is fond of saying, "Just Relax....."
  • K. Thanks! I'll bug her more about it. For some reason when I asked, I felt like she just didn't want to give me a list of who paid.
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