I have 3 girlfriends from my old job that I still talk to and hang out with. I want them be at my wedding but must I invite there husbands and boyfriends? Our guest list is already at our max. Can I just invite them or is this tacky?? Same for my Fiance he has some work friends that are acually insisting on coming and keep mentioning it. He would like some of them there but not everyone and must we invite all their spouses too?