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Michelle828

So last October I was invited to and went to a college friend's wedding.  I was very surprised but happy to be invited even though we hadn't talked or seen each other in a few years (just lost touch).  She invited me soon after we befriended and messaged one another on facebook.  So I was hoping to stay in better touch with her, but again we are not so good at keeping in touch and haven't talked since the wedding.  Although I like her a lot, I feel bad about a huge invite list since my mom is paying for the wedding.  Is it rude for me not to invite her and her new husband to our November wedding since I was just at her's last year?

Mrs.B6302007

Nope, not rude at all.  There are no strings attached to invites; she invited the # of guests she could accommodate and so will you.

Beachy730

No, you are fine.  If it was within a few months I would probably invite them, but people's lives completely change in a year.  When my college roommate got married 6 years ago, I was a BM in her wedding.  We have only talked a handful of times since then, and we live about 2 hours apart.  I didn't even invite her to mine, let alone have her in it. 

quotequeen

Unless you said something at her wedding like "I can't wait to see you again at mine" (if you were already engaged) you don't have to invite her.

Michelle828

Thanks so much for your advice, very helpful. : )