I browse around on a lot of boards and I swear, the next time I open a post and the OP says, "We are paying for the wedding ourselves...." wah wah wah.
Jesus H Christ people, DO YOU WANT A COOKIE?! I could give a SHIIT that you had to pay for your wedding yourself! Most people do, you are NOT SPECIAL. GAH.
ETA: This does not entitle you to act like a douchebag to your guests, or to register for a fuucking honeymoon cause you can't afford one otherwise.