Wedding Etiquette Forum

Guest's date turns Bridesmaid blue

I have a wedding guest who is the ex-boyfriend of one of my BM/BFF.  He has a new girlfriend and at the time of the wedding (October) they will have been together over a year.  The problem is, this guy wasn't really broken up with my BM when he started seeing his girlfriend, so it isn't really a great situation.  To spare her feelings, I would like to invite him with no guest, but everything I read says long term significant others get an invite.  My BM would tell me it is OK...but I know her and I don't want her to have a bad time because of this.  Should I do the single invite and brace myself for the wrath from the guest/possibility he won't come?
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