I was asked to be a bridesmaid and went dress shopping with the bridal party. Originally the bride wanted us all in the same dress, and we found it. The next day she called and said she had changed her mind, and that we could pick out any of the dresses we tried on. She then asked me my favorite, and when I told her she said besides that one, which one would I pick? The other bridesmaids didn't get a dress voted off, and that makes me feel singled out. Is it alright if I ask the bride if I can get the dress I like the best? I don't want to be a whiner, and I don't want to ruffle her feathers, but I don't know what the problem is! If there was something she didn't like about it, I would be willing to look into alterations, etc.