My MOH, sister, planned my bachelorette party for this Saturday. My friends knew from the beginning that there were some things she wanted to keep a surprise. One of my friends, Kris had asked me to ask my sister not to cash her check until a certain date. I said I would, but when it came time to do it, my sister waited to get everyone else's checks before cashing all of them so she waited a little longer. Now that it's time to pay for the limo, Kris asked my sister to not cash the check this time until the 28th. My sister sent me an annoyed email saying she needed the money right away and she cannot afford to pay for her also. I called my friend, calmly asking what was going on. She got defensive and acted like I should find a solution for her. I asked her if she ever thought of deducting that money like when you balance your check book...I was irritated by that point. I've had problems like this with her in the past. I thought that by now, things would be different. She's a year older than me, married, with two incomes and I still don't understand how she can be so financially irresponsible. I asked another one of my friends to spare her, then my sis can cash her check when she has the funds. I don't need this stress right now! I'm supposed to be excited for my party but right now I'm just bummed. Had to vent, thanks!