Initially, I wanted a small ceremony. However, we often spend time with one of my mom's sisters as well as one of her brothers/his family because they live really close to us. It'd be weird if I didn't invite them. That being said, I know that if I invited only them and not the other aunts and uncles (6 others, plus about 50 cousins), people would be offended.
Here's the thing. These aunts and uncles are from my mom's adoptive family. She has a biological brother who is annoying as heck. He's obsessed with having attention and will say whatever, whenever so he can receive praise or attention (not to mention he's the worst backseat driver, lol, but that's another story). I try to be patient and nice, but he's gets on my nerves...a lot. I really don't want to invite him to the ceremony. Apparently he already invited himself and my mom said, "oh, sure, you can come." Why, I don't know, as it's not her decision on whose coming...
So here's my question. Is it okay to not invite him? Or should I just invite the relatives who live in the same state? Or...any other suggestions? Argh I'm just so confused. TIA