My fiance's mother is paying for the groom's dinner, but she's really not happy about it. There was a lot of question about whether we'd have one at all but now it looks like she's willing to do it. One consession we offered was to have only the wedding party and immediate family paid for at the dinner. HOWEVER, we're having a destination wedding I and I just am not comfortable not inviting everyone to the dinner.
So how do we tell people, "please come to the groom's dinner and eat with us, but pay for your own food and drinks." ??
I don't want to be rude by not paying for everyone, but I don't want to have an exclusive little dinner when we're all going to be on this tiny little island together. I thought I could put a line in our calendar of events that we're putting in all the welcome bags, but I have no idea what to say.