My grandmother (dad's mom) is going to be my matron of honor who will be standing along side my 11 yr old daughter who is the honorary maid of honor. My mom is freaking out that my other grandmother (her mom) is going to get her feelings hurt (which she probably is). How can I include her or give her some special part in the wedding w/o having to include her in my actual wedding party? I am close with both of my grandmothers but my dad's mom and I have a really special bond.