KPS

ahhhitsshannyn

It is a boring day so I will go ahead and talk about KPS

That is weird about the FB one, but in all honesty I would probably do it too. I am pretty damn nosy like that.

I completely agree about the invisible one. It is the freaking internet, no one is going to realize that someone is missing. Tough tits. But, on the other hand, I do feel bad if anyone feels sad about it since I know there have been conversations on these boards about how people have trouble making friends IRL so these net friends are pretty damn close to being friends.

THE HUSBAND ONE!!! I am so happy that you guys are working it out. I really felt for you, and I hope that all continues to go well in the future!!

Not really any juicy ones today, but I always love seeing them either way. Comments?

kellyjellybelly

/threadjack.

bree - did you have your interview today?

annakb8

I'm glad the woman who felt her husband was ignoring her is working it out too.

And I would 100% still sign into my ex-bf's facebook account if he hadn't changed the password. I'm nosy too.

nurse.misty

I can honestly say I could care less what ex's have on their FB. I find that kind of odd to still want to snoop on him, but to each their own.

The husband one is great. Glad to see y'all are able to talk about it and work through problems. Good luck.

Now off to the vet to see why my dog keeps chewing the hair off his booty. Check back in when I get back home.

Beachy730

I'm happy for the soon to be unignored wife and glad it's working out.  

The Hunger Games one is dumb to me.  I never once thought about the fact that there were no churches and no relgion.  If you're disappointed that nobody ever brought it up, why didn't you ever mention it in the threads?

And I agree with the one about people not being noticed.  If you want to be noticed, stick around and talk.  And if you have no sig pic, don't complain about not being noticed or remembered.  I fully admit I never remember posters without a sig pic.  

hlq2011

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[QUOTE]But, on the other hand, I do feel bad if anyone feels sad about it since I know there have been conversations on these boards about how people have trouble making friends IRL so these net friends are pretty damn close to being friends.
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

Since one of my BMs is a girl I met online maybe eight years ago (who I've known longer than FI), but have never met in real life because of distance, I can totally attest to this.

RobotLegs

hlq- you're going to meet her for the first time at your wedding?

hlq2011

Well, right before, but yeah.  I know it's weird.  But she's honestly probably my best friend, aside from my aunt, who is my MOH.

I love B&W photos; yours is so pretty.

louisvillebride21

HUGE eye roll about the HG one. You feel so strongly about a controversial topic, YOU bring it up. Don't be a pvssy.

RobotLegs

Thanks   I think that's really cool that you guys have been friends for so long, and what a fun time to meet her! 

kellyjellybelly

Glad to hear it went well, Bree!  I cancelled mine.  It was highly unlikely that I would have taken the job if offered, so I didnt really want to waste everyone's time.  Despite the fact that it's so close to my house, I'm pretty confident that the pay would have been significantly less and getting vacation at hospitals is always a PITA.  Where I am right now, it's very easy since i'm the 2nd most senior person, and I get over 6 weeks a year.  I'm not quite ready to walk away from that in exchange for a short commute.  

hlq2011

Thanks! A lot of people think it's weird, and I know it stresses FI out a bit that we won't meet her until the wedding.  But I know she's real, lol.

Eventually we'll manage to get together when there's not wedding craziness going on.

kellyjellybelly

Part of me thinks I still should have just gone and seen.  Of course, who knows if they would have even offered me the job.  I especially thought that when I had to get gas today... 

ahhhitsshannyn

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[QUOTE]I can honestly say I could care less what ex's have on their FB. I find that kind of odd to still want to snoop on him, but to each their own. Posted by nurse.misty[/QUOTE]

I do not have any exes (flame me to hell) but I do not think I would care either since I am now super happy and never think of anyone else. BUT I still think that I might just be curious to see what is going on, not really because I care just because it would be nice to know what I dodged :)

The only experience I have is I had a best friend is high school who one day decided she hated me and deleted me from her friends and never breathed a word to me again. I see her occasionally on FB and sometimes in person since we have mutual friends, and it is just interesting to see how her life turned out. She got KU, does drugs on a regular basis and looks like she never showers. I do not care a thing about her, but it is interesting to see how her life is turning out. I don't know if this makes any sense.

annakb8

Shannon, I'm like you. I'm not still pining  over my ex or anything, I'm just really curious. And not only about him, when we were together I loved to look at profiles of people he was friends with that I wasn't. I want to know what's going on in people's lives but am way too lazy to actually ask anyone or keep in touch.

Celles

hlq -- H and I hadn't met three of our wedding guests IRL until two days before the wedding.  They were WoW guildies and we had been friends online for years, but never seemed to find the time or money to get together before that.  Our friendship translated so smoothly from the Internet to real life that we felt like we had found something we never even knew was lost.  It's hard to describe, but as someone who has never had many friends IRL, it was wonderful and surreal to meet a group of people with whom I felt immediately connected.

So, I get it!  And I'm happy for you. 

nurse.misty

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[QUOTE]In Response to Re: KPS : I do not have any exes (flame me to hell) but I do not think I would care either since I am now super happy and never think of anyone else. BUT I still think that I might just be curious to see what is going on, not really because I care just because it would be nice to know what I dodged :) The only experience I have is I had a best friend is high school who one day decided she hated me and deleted me from her friends and never breathed a word to me again. I see her occasionally on FB and sometimes in person since we have mutual friends, and it is just interesting to see how her life turned out. She got KU, does drugs on a regular basis and looks like she never showers. I do not care a thing about her, but it is interesting to see how her life is turning out. I don't know if this makes any sense.
Posted by ahhhitsshannyn[/QUOTE]

I understand what you're saying. I just figure we separated for a reason, and once I'm done with somebody that's pretty much it. My mom ran into my ex FI a month or so ago. She was all excited to tell me what she "found out" about him and how much better I am doing than he is, but I was just like ok. I'm just completely indifferent to anything to do with my ex's. 

I'm not saying there's necessarily anything wrong with it, I get why people would want to do it. I just personally wouldn't.