Here's the story...
My fiance and I got engaged last September and are holding our wedding in Boston on 4/21/12. My fiance is the younger of two boys and his brother lives in NY, NY. His brother just got engaged two weeks ago and has stated that he and his fiance are planning on holding their wedding before ours, in November of 2011. He has never really had a real conversation with us about how we feel about this. We are both really upset and feel they should wait until after our wedding. Do we have the right to be upset about this? How should we tackle discussing this with them?