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I swear it wasn't a meltdown

mwhitson14mwhitson14 member
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But everyone accused me of acting bridezillaish and having a meltdown because I got upset about both of shanes groomsmen and one of my bridesmaids skipping out on the rehearsal. Pretty sure if I was going to have a meltdown (which I didn't, no screaming, crying, or cursing) that's a pretty good reason for a meltdown. I felt like tonight anything I was forceful about, I was a bridezilla. I swear I will never use that word again.
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Re: I swear it wasn't a meltdown

  • shellydiane820shellydiane820 member
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    oh I think people like calling a bride "bridezilla"

    I was called one when I said "Guests are coming, no more pictures" because I didn't want the guests to see me before the wedding.

    I didn't yell, if anything I was nervous.

    Don't be sad fellow bridezilla.
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  • thesuninherheadthesuninherhead member
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    Are you referencing a previous thread, or IRL people, whit?
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  • louisvillebride21louisvillebride21
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    We're goin to the chapel and we're gonna get marrriiiieeed...
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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  • mwhitson14mwhitson14 member
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    I think so too shelly. It was like anything I said, they were just like, oh here she goes. Here's her meltdown. And I'm not even stressed or nervous, so no reason for one.
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  • aMrsin09aMrsin09
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    I think 3/4 of your bridal party skipping the rehersal that is FOR THEM is reason to get slightly upset.

    At least your RD was less $$, yes?
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  • mwhitson14mwhitson14 member
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    IRL people, specifically my family. Sorry for the random post. I just needed to whine a minute.
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  • thesuninherheadthesuninherhead member
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    side note: YOU'RE GETTING MARRIED TOMORROW!
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  • louisvillebride21louisvillebride21
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    FYI y'all I think she was starting to get a little tipsy when I was talking to her like 2 hours ago. She might be a tat KIU :D

    Love ya Whitsy!
    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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  • lyndausvilyndausvi mod
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    Going to the Chapel  and gonna get married.....

    Welll...  just let it go.. Have  a good time.. Ignore them.






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
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  • mwhitson14mwhitson14 member
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    Yeah I'm KUI. Love you ladies. Night night.
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  • thesuninherheadthesuninherhead member
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    Sweet dreams! Good luck for tomorrow!
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  • louisvillebride21louisvillebride21
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    On the chance that you see this: SMILE!!!




    "In the old days my ass would be in your back yard picking cotton, so excuse me if I don't put much stock in how f*cking awesome the old days were." -Nuggs
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  • lyndausvilyndausvi mod
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_swear-wasnt-meltdown?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:dfac5e40-6887-46f4-936d-186d4e1d5364Post:87aac99c-26b1-4376-8c20-594b9111767f">Re: I swear it wasn't a meltdown</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yeah I'm KUI. Love you ladies. Night night.
    Posted by mwhitson14[/QUOTE]


    STOP.. STOP..  Damm.. I'm addicted to the knot but I didn't even post the night before my wedding...

    Have a good time. DO NOT over analyze everything... have a great time and report to us later..

    Trust me.. we will still be here to see the update..






    What differentiates an average host and a great host is anticipating unexpressed needs and wants of their guests.  Just because the want/need is not expressed, doesn't mean it wouldn't be appreciated. 
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