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Thank you- Shower

I had a beautiful bridal shower yesterday, and I am working on my thank you notes today.

My question is when writing my thank you note, do I list everything that was given? For instance, we received a "honeymoon beach bag" filled with small goodies from sunblock, travel sized toiletries, luggage tags, etc. Can I write something like- thank you for the honeymoon beach bag filled with goodies to use on our honeymoon...or should I say thank you and list out the items on the thank you card? TIA

Re: Thank you- Shower

  • strlzfan11strlzfan11 member
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    edited July 2010
    I think you could probably get away with saying thank you for the goody bag, but you may want to highlight one or two items (like the sunscreen for instance- "we're especially thankful for the sunscreen because we know how expensive it can be in tourist-filled areas!").
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_thank-shower?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:dfb4cee4-d2db-4a9b-920b-d6ddb3b14adePost:90726f41-b12a-4a25-a8e6-527461ef638d">Re: Thank you- Shower</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think you could probably get away with saying thank you for the goody bag, but you may want to highlight one or two items (like the sunscreen for instance- "we're especially thankful for the sunscreen because we know how expensive it can be in tourist-filled areas!").
    Posted by strlzfan11[/QUOTE]

    This sounds like a good idea to me :-)
  • Yup! Highlighting a couple items in the bag (maybe some bigger items or more expensive ones) would be good. But a general thank you like PP wrote is perfectly fine!
  • I think you should list all the items in bullet form and explain why you're excited about receiving each one. Like a Powerpoint slide. Only then will the giver know the true depth of your gratitude.
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  • I wouldn't list every single item.  When I got a basket of random kitchen stuff, I just wrote, "Thank you so much for the kitchen supplies!  You know how much we love to cook, and we can't wait to use it all!"
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_thank-shower?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding BoardsForum:9Discussion:dfb4cee4-d2db-4a9b-920b-d6ddb3b14adePost:9fcd4cb6-3550-4069-945d-e06bee4f6993">Re: Thank you- Shower</a>:
    [QUOTE]I think you should list all the items in bullet form and explain why you're excited about receiving each one. Like a Powerpoint slide. Only then will the giver know the true depth of your gratitude.
    Posted by brookelynpaisley[/QUOTE]

    Go all the way - put together the powerpoint with cool transitions and such.  Burn it to disc, and send that with the note. 

    Too much?  :D  Just mention a couple of items in the bag specificially - general is fine for the rest.
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  • Thanks everyone. I was just curious what was correct since I have received thank you cards where people have listed out every single little item I put in a basket. It seemed excessive to me, but I figured maybe they were following etiquette.
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