My fiance and are have been together for almost five years, we're getting married this september and from the moment we told his mother the colors and still of what we're doing she has been trying to change everything. she hates red, so that can't be one of our colors. roses are over rated so she hasn't stopped ranting about the choice of my bouquet. despite the fact that our style is very classical romance (rose red, black, white and purple for accents in flowers and ribbons) she is sending me pictures of mardigras masks as "wedding Decor." she even said my dress was "uh lovely?" and refuses to keep her very negative opinion out of anything we try to include her in. how do we keep our wedding our way, without messing up an already sensitive relationship because "i'm taking her boy away"?