Not sure where I should have posted this but here it is:
I am panicking about our guest list. A few months ago my fiance's family said they were inviting 50 (25 + guest) people. We set our budget and my parents are paying for everything. Now all of the sudden their guest list is almost 200! I feel like they weren't for a big wedding because they didn't have the money but since my parents are paying for it, they're taking advantage. Can I tell them they need to cut back their list? I feel as if I have to explain etiquette to them for every aspect of this wedding. What would you do?