This might not be an issue. Meaning, we're VERY far out from our wedding. At this point, the people who have mentioned wanting to help us are our moms (and we are VERY grateful--otherwise we wouldn't be able to have as big of an event). I don't expect anyone else to help, but, who knows? So, this is why it's just an "I wonder..." at this point, but I'm bored, so...ya know, I wonder...
How will we word our invites?
Mrs. Mom Caine and Mrs. FI Lastname
request the honor of your presense at the marriage of their children:
Miss. Stacey Caine and Mr. FI Lastname?
Etc., etc?
For what it's worth, I DO feel like I should honor these two women on the invite, but they've both said they don't care, and just to skip that and say "together with our families" or leave it off entirely, so, I guess "Stacey Caine and FI Lastname request the honor of your presense...?"
I don't know. Something doesn't feel right about that, because these two women are amazing, and they have been so helpful through our entire lives (not a whole lot of support from our dads, is what I'm getting at, and not just in the wedding--our whole lives). I feel like we should let people know that these are the people who made it possible.
Of course, if even one more person steps up and helps, we're going the "families of" or leaving it off route, because I think more than two people gets a little lengthy.