I was curious whether the following is appropriate or extremely rude:
My fiance and I are only having 120 guests to the morning ceremony and afternoon reception. We plan on having an after party at my parent's house with additional catered food, bar, kegs, maybe a DJ.
In light of the above would it be horrible to invite friends that we cannot possibly cram into the reception hall to the after party if we make it abundantly clear that we do not want a gift?