I have made a few previous posts about some issues with my cousin who is a bridesmaid in my wedding party (she was angry that I hadn't bought bridal party gifts for her yet, despite my wedding not being until July). We have not had much contact since then but something just happened that makes me unable to imagine her in my bridal party any longer.
Without going into too much detail, my family discovered that she stole a few thousand dollars from my father. This by itself would be disgusting enough to me but she had a hard life growing up and my Dad was one of the only people who took care of her, both emotionally and financially when her own parents did not. In addition (I can't believe there is more), she tried to sell confidential information about a company he owns to one of his competitors.
I have read these boards and understand that kicking someone out of the bridal party is generally frowned upon and considered wrong. But my Dad is the world to me and I pretty much cannot stomach even looking at her anymore, much less doing anything wedding related.
Can I classify this as an exception to the "don't ever kick out a bridesmaid" rule? At this point I would be okay never speaking to her again as a result of this mess. All advice appreciated